I love this image...men come to work with me and I can feel their yearning to be held. To be able to surrender... This is the feminine in the male.
Within each of us are dual energies. Men have a feminine and a masculine nature.
Classic overdrive of masculine, is all work and no play, driven by freedom and purpose. Out of balance the masculine can shut down when battling a mission i.e 'work' or a project at the cost of his heart, the term "in his head". Driven by his cock and not in his heart, the disconnection grows between these two, if a male can't open his heart.
To help bring this energy of drive into his heart space, we can utilise play, whisper into his ear your longing, touch him with our feminine tenderness. Encourage him to breathe into his heart during sex, by touching him there & sublimating the energy into the higher energy centres out of base and sacral chakra. Sex definitely opens a man's heart.
We also want to support our men to be able to access their feminine, through the woman having access to her inner masculine, to allow males to be able to have their time for emotional expression.
Men can often feel safe with other men, because that ancient deep masculine enables them to let go and talk.
As women, we need to be able to hold both energies. Particularly in courting to turn a males heart on, beyond just a sexual connection, he needs to feel a sense of safety that she is capable of holding herself and her centre. So that his heart can soften, expand, grow and fully receive from deep consciousness and in return give back and support women in fullness.
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