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@autumnrowe drops by to help make this episode #golden don’t miss it! Available now link in bio for our new #FriendsLikeUs

@autumnrowe drops by to help make this episode #golden don’t miss it! Available now link in bio for our new #FriendsLikeUs

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STORY TIME| So this is Angie Bannerman Ankoma, a top executive at United Way of Rhode Island - and me catching up over lunch earlier today . She is one of the powerful women I met in 2019. Yet the story of our first encounter is a pretty embarrassing one actually. .
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I met her in September at the R.I.S.E Women's Leadership conference where I was moderating the Business Panel and promoting my books as a vendor. She had dropped by my booth to grab a copy of my #BrandYOU book and to find out more about my #personalbranding Oct workshop I was promoting .
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When she mentioned that she was Head of Community Investment at United Way and they were dedicated, among other things, the issue of #homelessness in RI. I shared with her that I was a member of the Community Advisory Board (CAB) at United Way and always felt triggered by homelessness and always felt emotional around the subject.
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As I'm telling her - a complete stranger - that I've never been homeless, hadnt known anyone who was homeless but had always felt such heartbreak at the indignity of, I started crying! Not tears in my eyes stuff, proper crying. 😳 Poor Angie had to be comforting me and giving me tissue to wipe my eyes as I was busy messing up my make up. I just met her, two minutes before! 🤣😳. .
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She had heard good things about me prior so a sobbing fool was not her first impression. Yet it effectively was! We chatted today about this, my African/Senegalese*(winks) heritage and the kind of work we could do together. .
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Thanks for wiping my tears Angie and for such an engaging and delightful lunch date today! .
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PS: I still get emotional about homelessness. Still trying to figure out why it upends me like this.
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#Homelessness #womenofcolor #womenempoweringwomen #blackgirlsrock #blackwomen #blackpride #blackexcellence #humejohnson #jamaican #photooftheday #charity #sisterhood #sistersquad #networking #careeradvice #mentoringlife #leadership #personalbranding

STORY TIME| So this is Angie Bannerman Ankoma, a top executive at United Way of Rhode Island - and me catching up over lunch earlier today . She is one of the powerful women I met in 2019. Yet the story of our first encounter is a pretty embarrassing one actually. .
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I met her in September at the R.I.S.E Women's Leadership conference where I was moderating the Business Panel and promoting my books as a vendor. She had dropped by my booth to grab a copy of my #BrandYOU book and to find out more about my #personalbranding Oct workshop I was promoting .
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When she mentioned that she was Head of Community Investment at United Way and they were dedicated, among other things, the issue of #homelessness in RI. I shared with her that I was a member of the Community Advisory Board (CAB) at United Way and always felt triggered by homelessness and always felt emotional around the subject.
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As I'm telling her - a complete stranger - that I've never been homeless, hadnt known anyone who was homeless but had always felt such heartbreak at the indignity of, I started crying! Not tears in my eyes stuff, proper crying. 😳 Poor Angie had to be comforting me and giving me tissue to wipe my eyes as I was busy messing up my make up. I just met her, two minutes before! 🤣😳. .
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She had heard good things about me prior so a sobbing fool was not her first impression. Yet it effectively was! We chatted today about this, my African/Senegalese*(winks) heritage and the kind of work we could do together. .
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Thanks for wiping my tears Angie and for such an engaging and delightful lunch date today! .
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PS: I still get emotional about homelessness. Still trying to figure out why it upends me like this.
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#Homelessness #womenofcolor #womenempoweringwomen #blackgirlsrock #blackwomen #blackpride #blackexcellence #humejohnson #jamaican #photooftheday #charity #sisterhood #sistersquad #networking #careeradvice #mentoringlife #leadership #personalbranding

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Sometimes it takes a woman to push away imperialist thinking and help create national identity. Currently on my desk, the expanded second edition of the first cookbook published by a Mexican woman - who was the first to highlight specifically Mexican cuisine #unamexicana #cookery #nationalidentity #womenshistory #onmydesk #rarebooks #womensbooks #socialhistory #womenofcolor #justanotherdayatwork #lovemyjob

Sometimes it takes a woman to push away imperialist thinking and help create national identity. Currently on my desk, the expanded second edition of the first cookbook published by a Mexican woman - who was the first to highlight specifically Mexican cuisine #unamexicana #cookery #nationalidentity #womenshistory #onmydesk #rarebooks #womensbooks #socialhistory #womenofcolor #justanotherdayatwork #lovemyjob

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4 is also sounds like the word “death “in Canto, and can be used as how we use “damn”, like “damn cat”. 💖✨💖 #postitshow15 @giantrobot SEE SUCH GOOD ART DEC 7th! 🤓
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#giantrobot #postit #postitart #postitshow #ink #fwink #inkdrawing #inking #badasswoman #womenofcolor #chineseamerican #chineseamericanartist #facetattoo #chineseamericanart #asianamericanart #asianamericanartist #asianamericanwomen #asianamericancreatives #asiancreativenetwork

4 is also sounds like the word “death “in Canto, and can be used as how we use “damn”, like “damn cat”. 💖✨💖 #postitshow15 @giantrobot SEE SUCH GOOD ART DEC 7th! 🤓
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#giantrobot #postit #postitart #postitshow #ink #fwink #inkdrawing #inking #badasswoman #womenofcolor #chineseamerican #chineseamericanartist #facetattoo #chineseamericanart #asianamericanart #asianamericanartist #asianamericanwomen #asianamericancreatives #asiancreativenetwork

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“I Choose” Video Out Now @laytongreene 🎧🔥🔥🔥
🚧Click the link in the bio🔝🔝🔝🔝.
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“I Choose” Video Out Now @laytongreene 🎧🔥🔥🔥
🚧Click the link in the bio🔝🔝🔝🔝.


Follow: @theothersideuncut






Like | Tag | Comment | Turn on Notifications ↗↗↗↗

#THEOTHERSIDEUNCUT #kodakblack #drake
#soundcloud #clout #zoes #ynwmelly #floridaartist #rapper #hiphop #blackwomen #JTFree #period #megantheestallion #Miami #rhgo #blackwomen #explorepage #atlanta #yungmiami #femalerappers #citygirls #nickiminaj #floridarapper #womenofcolor #dababy #followme #hbcu

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you will reap what you sow. you can't expect to wake up today and be successful. 
What plans did you put into place? What actions did you take? Did you do your research? Did you do the work? .
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#entrepreneur #entrepreneurgoals #entrepreneurinthemaking #womenofcolor #womenbosses #girlbosses #girlboss

you will reap what you sow. you can't expect to wake up today and be successful.
What plans did you put into place? What actions did you take? Did you do your research? Did you do the work? .
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#entrepreneur #entrepreneurgoals #entrepreneurinthemaking #womenofcolor #womenbosses #girlbosses #girlboss

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Hair & Beard Oil to keep you moisturized & feeling brand new! Treat yo self ✨ ⠀
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Locally made by @browneyedbabekc⠀
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🌑Harvest Moon⠀
🌱Botánica  Women’s Collective⠀
🧘🏽‍♀️#womenofcolor ⠀
🌆4107 A Troost Ave, Kansas City, MO 64110⠀
⏳Tue-Sat 11am-7pm

Hair & Beard Oil to keep you moisturized & feeling brand new! Treat yo self ✨ ⠀

Locally made by @browneyedbabekc

🌑Harvest Moon⠀
🌱Botánica Women’s Collective⠀
🧘🏽‍♀️ #womenofcolor
🌆4107 A Troost Ave, Kansas City, MO 64110⠀
⏳Tue-Sat 11am-7pm

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Asking the real questions. @vanityfair Im still waiting on an answer. #womenofcolor #woc #militarywoc #military #dronestrikes

Asking the real questions. @vanityfair Im still waiting on an answer. #womenofcolor #woc #militarywoc #military #dronestrikes

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I am beyond grateful. my commitment to my healing is a commitment to my communities healing. when my Pops passed, I took a grief trip and went to South Africa for a month, while away I heard spirit speak to me clearer than  ever in regards to my purpose. I felt the need to visit a healing space for women of color while in SA but didn’t know where to go, and thought...yo we need this, we need more healing spaces where women of color are centered. we need these spaces around the world. I begin to doubt my ability to raise the kind of capital I needed to own healing spaces around the world. I remembered that my Pops use to always wear this “Life is Short” tee and it at times it unerved me to see him, with Cancer, rocking this shirt, yet his shirt was right and his life was shorter than I ever imagined. I decided not to wait until some major investment came thru for my bubbling idea, cuz life is short, in hindsight.i started a healing space in my home....since the end of September I have hosted 7 healing events, women of color lead, in my home, only one of these events was an event I created, to announce the healing space pop up...last night @queenafua taught a Womb Wellness Master Class as the 8th healing event in my home, and the second healing event I created in my home. I am humbled and proud. various wombmen were present, from all over, one sistah flew in from North Carolina just for this, another drove her and three of her friends from Philly...all to receive this life changing lesson from our most glorious master teacher @queenafua . I am forever grateful I have a direct line to Queen and am in awe of what happens when I get out of my head and live. my healing space pop up is called W.ild E.arth. look out for more in the New Year, as I will continue. next event to be lead by @tettumyvon and @khay_like_fly a sound healing yoga experience on Dec 15, and then after that @whitneyjjackson will be hosting an event on Dec 29 ✨ glorious to be held and hold. a true blessing to my purpose as a space holder, space transformer, and healer of my legacy. #givethanks #queenafua #wildearth #womenofcolor thank you more than words can hold, thank Momma Queen Afua, thank you.

I am beyond grateful. my commitment to my healing is a commitment to my communities healing. when my Pops passed, I took a grief trip and went to South Africa for a month, while away I heard spirit speak to me clearer than ever in regards to my purpose. I felt the need to visit a healing space for women of color while in SA but didn’t know where to go, and thought...yo we need this, we need more healing spaces where women of color are centered. we need these spaces around the world. I begin to doubt my ability to raise the kind of capital I needed to own healing spaces around the world. I remembered that my Pops use to always wear this “Life is Short” tee and it at times it unerved me to see him, with Cancer, rocking this shirt, yet his shirt was right and his life was shorter than I ever imagined. I decided not to wait until some major investment came thru for my bubbling idea, cuz life is short, in hindsight.i started a healing space in my home....since the end of September I have hosted 7 healing events, women of color lead, in my home, only one of these events was an event I created, to announce the healing space pop up...last night @queenafua taught a Womb Wellness Master Class as the 8th healing event in my home, and the second healing event I created in my home. I am humbled and proud. various wombmen were present, from all over, one sistah flew in from North Carolina just for this, another drove her and three of her friends from Philly...all to receive this life changing lesson from our most glorious master teacher @queenafua . I am forever grateful I have a direct line to Queen and am in awe of what happens when I get out of my head and live. my healing space pop up is called W.ild E.arth. look out for more in the New Year, as I will continue. next event to be lead by @tettumyvon and @khay_like_fly a sound healing yoga experience on Dec 15, and then after that @whitneyjjackson will be hosting an event on Dec 29 ✨ glorious to be held and hold. a true blessing to my purpose as a space holder, space transformer, and healer of my legacy. #givethanks #queenafua #wildearth #womenofcolor thank you more than words can hold, thank Momma Queen Afua, thank you.

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#plantsheal #blackveganwomen #blackvegan #blackvegans #blackvegansofig #plantpoweredsistas #blackwomenshealth #blackvegetarian #blackvegetarians #sistassupportingsistas #sistasinspiringsistas #afrogirlfitness #blackwomenlosingweight #blackwomenworkout #blackwomenmatter #essencemagazine #blackwomenempowerment #womenofcolor

New Merchandise Alert 🚨🚨🚨 Celebrate your plantbased lifestyle with family and friends and inspire them to start their own journeys. Link to order is in our bio⬆️ and on our website.

#plantsheal #blackveganwomen #blackvegan #blackvegans #blackvegansofig #plantpoweredsistas #blackwomenshealth #blackvegetarian #blackvegetarians #sistassupportingsistas #sistasinspiringsistas #afrogirlfitness #blackwomenlosingweight #blackwomenworkout #blackwomenmatter #essencemagazine #blackwomenempowerment #womenofcolor

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Who’s coming to Dallas in 2020? 
#CCWC2020Dallas #Empowerment #WomenOfColor #Dallas

Who’s coming to Dallas in 2020?
#CCWC2020Dallas #Empowerment #WomenOfColor #Dallas

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#FlashbackFriday to this amazing stack that was on display at the 3rd Annual @wellreadblackgirl festival. ⁣
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Have you read any of these? What are you reading this weekend?⁣
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Tag your #diversespines⁣
Photo credit:  @spinesvines⁣
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#wellreadblackgirl #WRBGFest19

#FlashbackFriday to this amazing stack that was on display at the 3rd Annual @wellreadblackgirl festival. ⁣

Have you read any of these? What are you reading this weekend?⁣

Tag your #diversespines
Photo credit: @spinesvines

#wellreadblackgirl #WRBGFest19

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Happy Friday! Can you believe we’re 6 days into the last month of the entire decade? One thing we’re excited for is all the produce in season like apples, beets, Brussels sprouts, cauliflower, cabbage, pomegranates, sweet potatoes and sooooo much more! 
What are some of your favorite seasonal dishes to makes this time year?!

Happy Friday! Can you believe we’re 6 days into the last month of the entire decade? One thing we’re excited for is all the produce in season like apples, beets, Brussels sprouts, cauliflower, cabbage, pomegranates, sweet potatoes and sooooo much more!
What are some of your favorite seasonal dishes to makes this time year?!

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We know you know this cool brand is pollinating the world with hope. And doing this by inspiring our hearts with beautiful words printed on sweatshirts, Tees & more. We can’t wait to have @thesweethive join our 
beautiful CU•RAT•ED: Mini Modern Pop Up Holiday Market that is Happening December 14-15th 12:00-5:00pm .
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Sweet Hive is Promoting Positivity with Apparel and her words so please come support her & many more next weekend.  Sunday November 10th 12-5pm. So grab your tickets in our bio It’s Free & come have some good old fashion family fun. #duh .
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#LocalDreamer 
#Dfwwomen #womeninbusiness #DallasPopUp #DallasMarket  #LocalMakers #Handcrafted #DallasBig #MadeInDallas #ShopLocal #DallasMakers #calledtobecreative #abmlifeiscolorful #getoutside #DesignBlogger #dallasinfluencer #dallasinteriordesign #DallasBlogger #instadfw #visitDallas #UptownDallas #holidaymarket #womeninbusiness #womensupportwomen #womenofcolor #Dallas  #BishopArtsDistrict #BishopArts #theimanproject follow @theimanproject @thecuratedproject

We know you know this cool brand is pollinating the world with hope. And doing this by inspiring our hearts with beautiful words printed on sweatshirts, Tees & more. We can’t wait to have @thesweethive join our
beautiful CU•RAT•ED: Mini Modern Pop Up Holiday Market that is Happening December 14-15th 12:00-5:00pm .
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Sweet Hive is Promoting Positivity with Apparel and her words so please come support her & many more next weekend. Sunday November 10th 12-5pm. So grab your tickets in our bio It’s Free & come have some good old fashion family fun. #duh .
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#LocalDreamer
#Dfwwomen #womeninbusiness #DallasPopUp #DallasMarket #LocalMakers #Handcrafted #DallasBig #MadeInDallas #ShopLocal #DallasMakers #calledtobecreative #abmlifeiscolorful #getoutside #DesignBlogger #dallasinfluencer #dallasinteriordesign #DallasBlogger #instadfw #visitDallas #UptownDallas #holidaymarket #womeninbusiness #womensupportwomen #womenofcolor #Dallas #BishopArtsDistrict #BishopArts #theimanproject follow @theimanproject @thecuratedproject

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Mastering your emotions is a huge task that pays of BIG TIME in the long haul.  The first step in using  your emotions to your advantage is too on listen to them! 🌿

Mastering your emotions is a huge task that pays of BIG TIME in the long haul. The first step in using your emotions to your advantage is too on listen to them! 🌿

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❤️❤️❤️❤️ When my guy comes home  and hands me a wallet full of gift cards, Pandora Charms for my bracelet, a dozen of roses made with $100 dollar bills and an envelope! 🙈❤️ Then I open the envelope and burst into absolute tears. 😭 He has not only surprised me with a 10 day all inclusive vacation, but...WE LEAVE FRIDAY!!!! I am so freaking emotional!!! 😊😫😭😍TIME TO PACKKK!!!✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽 I don't know who's status this was but I know you wish it was yours so let's make it happen!! Contact 2BusyNot2Travel today at (980)292-BUSY or via https://2bzz2.com and arrange your dream vacation!

#2busynot2travel #grouptravel #womenofsubstance #womenofcolor #womeninbusiness #blackgirlstraveltoo #blacktraveljourney #womenentrepreneurs #womenoftheworld #men #husbands #wives
#lovers #frequentflyer #frequenttraveller #anniversary #birthday #christmasgifts #soultravel #supportblackbusiness #girlfriends #boyfriends

❤️❤️❤️❤️ When my guy comes home  and hands me a wallet full of gift cards, Pandora Charms for my bracelet, a dozen of roses made with $100 dollar bills and an envelope! 🙈❤️ Then I open the envelope and burst into absolute tears. 😭 He has not only surprised me with a 10 day all inclusive vacation, but...WE LEAVE FRIDAY!!!! I am so freaking emotional!!! 😊😫😭😍TIME TO PACKKK!!!✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽 I don't know who's status this was but I know you wish it was yours so let's make it happen!! Contact 2BusyNot2Travel today at (980)292-BUSY or via https://2bzz2.com and arrange your dream vacation!

#2busynot2travel #grouptravel #womenofsubstance #womenofcolor #womeninbusiness #blackgirlstraveltoo #blacktraveljourney #womenentrepreneurs #womenoftheworld #men #husbands #wives
#lovers #frequentflyer #frequenttraveller #anniversary #birthday #christmasgifts #soultravel #supportblackbusiness #girlfriends #boyfriends

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It's important to take care of your edges, there is no better way to do so apart from getting this Wig.

C-cut beaded  braid wig available for next day delivery 🚙🚙 Price : 12k/$33

#essiemari #essiewatermelon #colouredhair #colouredgirls #ghanabride #ghanabraids #mua  #brushes #wives #motheranddaughter #beauty #brain #redhair #cut #liverpoolhairstylist #usa🇺🇸 #christmashair #tradefair #hairtradefair #africanbraids #womenofcolor #wigdealer #londonwigs #london #chinabestwig #africanbraidedwigs #weddings #makeupartist #miba

It's important to take care of your edges, there is no better way to do so apart from getting this Wig.

C-cut beaded braid wig available for next day delivery 🚙🚙 Price : 12k/$33

#essiemari #essiewatermelon #colouredhair #colouredgirls #ghanabride #ghanabraids #mua #brushes #wives #motheranddaughter #beauty #brain #redhair #cut #liverpoolhairstylist #usa🇺🇸 #christmashair #tradefair #hairtradefair #africanbraids #womenofcolor #wigdealer #londonwigs #london #chinabestwig #africanbraidedwigs #weddings #makeupartist #miba

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Let’s chat! What are your must have fashion pieces that you cannot live without? 💞💭⤵️

Let’s chat! What are your must have fashion pieces that you cannot live without? 💞💭⤵️

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Tripped in drip 💦
•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• EYEBROWS: @anastasiabeverlyhills: Dipbrow (Ebony)

CONCEALER: @tartecosmetics: Shape Tape (Tan)

EYESHADOW: @morphebrushes (35W)

FOUNDATION: @marykayus Timewise (Bronze 5)

HIGHLIGHT: @elfcosmetics (Moonlight Pearls)

LIPS: @milanicosmetics: (Matte Naked)

#blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #blackgirlsrock #blackart #queen  #womanofcolor #womenofcolor #makeupforblackwomen #wocmakeup #blackmakeup #melanin #melaninbeauty #naturalglam #naturalglow #mua #indymua #undiscoveredmua #hairbeautydirectory #softglam #cutcrease #prettymakeup #makeuplook #makeupartist #makeupoftheday #mua #fff

Tripped in drip 💦
•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• EYEBROWS: @anastasiabeverlyhills: Dipbrow (Ebony)

CONCEALER: @tartecosmetics: Shape Tape (Tan)

EYESHADOW: @morphebrushes (35W)

FOUNDATION: @marykayus Timewise (Bronze 5)

HIGHLIGHT: @elfcosmetics (Moonlight Pearls)

LIPS: @milanicosmetics: (Matte Naked)

#blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #blackgirlsrock #blackart #queen #womanofcolor #womenofcolor #makeupforblackwomen #wocmakeup #blackmakeup #melanin #melaninbeauty #naturalglam #naturalglow #mua #indymua #undiscoveredmua #hairbeautydirectory #softglam #cutcrease #prettymakeup #makeuplook #makeupartist #makeupoftheday #mua #fff

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“Why fit in when you’re born to stand out?” 💕💣

“Why fit in when you’re born to stand out?” 💕💣

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It's important to take care of your edges, there is no better way to do so apart from getting this Wig.

C-cut beaded  braid wig available for next day delivery 🚙🚙 Price : 12k/$33

#essiemari #essiewatermelon #colouredhair #colouredgirls #ghanabride #ghanabraids #mua  #brushes #wives #motheranddaughter #beauty #brain #redhair #cut #liverpoolhairstylist #usa🇺🇸 #christmashair #tradefair #hairtradefair #africanbraids #womenofcolor #wigdealer #londonwigs #london #chinabestwig #africanbraidedwigs #weddings #makeupartist #miba

It's important to take care of your edges, there is no better way to do so apart from getting this Wig.

C-cut beaded braid wig available for next day delivery 🚙🚙 Price : 12k/$33

#essiemari #essiewatermelon #colouredhair #colouredgirls #ghanabride #ghanabraids #mua #brushes #wives #motheranddaughter #beauty #brain #redhair #cut #liverpoolhairstylist #usa🇺🇸 #christmashair #tradefair #hairtradefair #africanbraids #womenofcolor #wigdealer #londonwigs #london #chinabestwig #africanbraidedwigs #weddings #makeupartist #miba

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Hey, babes! Here is a tip of the day! Comment “ME” if you need help finding clothing that flatters you perfectly 💕💭⤵️

Hey, babes! Here is a tip of the day! Comment “ME” if you need help finding clothing that flatters you perfectly 💕💭⤵️

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Network. Collaborate. Inspire. Be Inspired. We want to see everyone WIN! #ThisIsAjilla

Network. Collaborate. Inspire. Be Inspired. We want to see everyone WIN! #ThisIsAjilla

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“Life is short. Make every outfit count” 💕💣

“Life is short. Make every outfit count” 💕💣

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Babes! Our Natural Fur Fox Vests are to die for! Wear this with any causal outfit to turn it up just a notch ✨🖤

Babes! Our Natural Fur Fox Vests are to die for! Wear this with any causal outfit to turn it up just a notch ✨🖤

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Express yourself through fashion and let it be the statement piece to your life 🖤 XOXO

Express yourself through fashion and let it be the statement piece to your life 🖤 XOXO

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Oh snap, babes! Our Fuzzy Winter Slippers Are Available For Purchase 🖤 XOXO

Oh snap, babes! Our Fuzzy Winter Slippers Are Available For Purchase 🖤 XOXO

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Working from home Vibes. Happy Friday Ladies. 
Photo Credit: @oroma.elewa

Working from home Vibes. Happy Friday Ladies.
Photo Credit: @oroma.elewa

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You've been waiting and now the wait is over! Exfoliating Body Polishes by Sweet Surrender will finally be available Friday, December 6th at 12pm (PST) ... that's today ya'll!

The first 10 people to order a body polish will receive one full-size bar of soap as a special gift but only if you place your order before midnight tonight (12/6/19)! Supplies are limited so don't delay!💕💕💕 www.sweet-surrender.biz

#SweetSurrender #selfcare #bodypolish #sugarscrub #naturalbathandbodycare #selflove #melanated #naturalskincare #blackownedbusiness #blackowned #lasvegas #naturalistas #womenofcolor #exfoliateyourskin #bodycareproducts #spatreatment #beautycare #mommytime #mommymetime

You've been waiting and now the wait is over! Exfoliating Body Polishes by Sweet Surrender will finally be available Friday, December 6th at 12pm (PST) ... that's today ya'll!

The first 10 people to order a body polish will receive one full-size bar of soap as a special gift but only if you place your order before midnight tonight (12/6/19)! Supplies are limited so don't delay!💕💕💕 www.sweet-surrender.biz

#SweetSurrender #selfcare #bodypolish #sugarscrub #naturalbathandbodycare #selflove #melanated #naturalskincare #blackownedbusiness #blackowned #lasvegas #naturalistas #womenofcolor #exfoliateyourskin #bodycareproducts #spatreatment #beautycare #mommytime #mommymetime

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We are absolutely ELATED to share this special talent that will be performing at The BWHB Awards coming Friday, April 24th!!
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The sultry, soulful sounds of Ms. Necole Pew! MAD TALENT! Be sure to grab your tickets...you DO NOT want to miss this!! .
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We are absolutely ELATED to share this special talent that will be performing at The BWHB Awards coming Friday, April 24th!!
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The sultry, soulful sounds of Ms. Necole Pew! MAD TALENT! Be sure to grab your tickets...you DO NOT want to miss this!! .
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We are absolutely ELATED to share this special talent that will be performing at The BWHB Awards coming Friday, April 24th!!
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The sultry, soulful sounds of Ms. Necole Pew! MAD TALENT! Be sure to grab your tickets...you DO NOT want to miss this!! .
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#BlackWomenHandlingBusiness #Building #Bridging #EmergingWomen #iDreamInPower #Entrepreneur #BWHB #BWHBAwards #IndieArtist #RAndB #SoulfulArtist #MusicalArtist #BlackWomenInBusiness #Creatives #WomenInBusiness #MyBlackIsBeautiful #iMotivateSolutionsLLC #EmpowermentStrategist #BusinessOwner #GoalChaser #WomenOfColor #BlackTie #WomenInTheArts #PurposeDriven

We are absolutely ELATED to share this special talent that will be performing at The BWHB Awards coming Friday, April 24th!!
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The sultry, soulful sounds of Ms. Necole Pew! MAD TALENT! Be sure to grab your tickets...you DO NOT want to miss this!! .
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#BlackWomenHandlingBusiness #Building #Bridging #EmergingWomen #iDreamInPower #Entrepreneur #BWHB #BWHBAwards #IndieArtist #RAndB #SoulfulArtist #MusicalArtist #BlackWomenInBusiness #Creatives #WomenInBusiness #MyBlackIsBeautiful #iMotivateSolutionsLLC #EmpowermentStrategist #BusinessOwner #GoalChaser #WomenOfColor #BlackTie #WomenInTheArts #PurposeDriven

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You cant get it anywhere else for this price.
Get all for 20k
Original products you can trust

#comefordfairnwinaplotofland #seasonsscenes #jisolaBrandboss #jisolasaleshub #globalbrand

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💬 "How can women of color excel with media narratives and political systems so deeply rooted in racism and misogyny? It is inspiring to see Black and brown women step up into leadership, and frustrating when they are torn down." – Policy Strategist, Iraq Veteran & @VoteRunLead National Certified Trainer #NailahAmaru, for @Refinery29's 'What @KamalaHarris’ Campaign Meant To Women Of Color' 🔗 Link in bio!

💬 "How can women of color excel with media narratives and political systems so deeply rooted in racism and misogyny? It is inspiring to see Black and brown women step up into leadership, and frustrating when they are torn down." – Policy Strategist, Iraq Veteran & @VoteRunLead National Certified Trainer #NailahAmaru, for @Refinery29's 'What @KamalaHarris’ Campaign Meant To Women Of Color' 🔗 Link in bio!

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"𝙶𝚕𝚘𝚠𝚒𝚗𝚐" (𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚟𝚎𝚍 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚃𝚞𝚖𝚋𝚕𝚛) 
𝚂𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚌𝚎: @lovednymph ♔
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 #blackexcellence #blacklove #4b #4a #4c #4bhair #4chair #4ahair #coily #braids #boxbraid #protectivestyles #weave 
#wig #instagram #womenofcolor #feminisim #peopleofcolor #blacklivesmatter #melanin  #hair  #sheabutter #women #latina #hispanic  #trinidad #jamaica #islands #hati #african

"𝙶𝚕𝚘𝚠𝚒𝚗𝚐" (𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚟𝚎𝚍 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚃𝚞𝚖𝚋𝚕𝚛)
𝚂𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚌𝚎: @lovednymph



#blackexcellence #blacklove #4b #4a #4c #4bhair #4chair #4ahair #coily #braids #boxbraid #protectivestyles #weave
#wig #instagram #womenofcolor #feminisim #peopleofcolor #blacklivesmatter #melanin #hair #sheabutter #women #latina #hispanic #trinidad #jamaica #islands #hati #african

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See the curls that are changing the perception of white hair👵🏽💋
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Today we'd like to discuss some things about trauma. ⁣⁣
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Trauma can be any deeply distressing or disturbing experience which leads to psychological and emotional wounds. These wounds then start to shape your mental health and identity. It can be a one time distressing event, such as a loss, or multiple events, or a prolonged experience of events. ⁣⁣
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Trauma can be experienced through emotional, mental and physical means. Some examples include emotional and verbal abuse, physical abuse, emotional or physical neglect, domestic or physical violence, sexual assault, community violence, medical trauma, traumatic loss, life transitions, and natural disasters, just to name a few. ⁣⁣
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Psychological symptoms of trauma may include anxiety and fear, low self esteem, depression guilt, shame, self-blame, difficulty concentrating, feelings of hopelessness, feeling disconnected or numb, and/or withdrawing from others. Physical symptoms may include insomnia or nightmares, dissociation or “out of body” experiences, fatigue, being startled easily, difficulty concentrating, racing heartbeat, feeling on edge, agitation, aches/pains, and muscle tension. ⁣⁣
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Being first-gens, children of immigrants, and women of color, you're a lot more likely to have experienced some type of trauma or distressing experience(s) throughout your life. Unfortunately, guilt, shame, self-blame and low self esteem are much too common in WOC. It's important to recognize your trauma, and use self compassion as a healing tool. ⁣⁣
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There are therapeutic treatments available to help you learn to recognize physical and psychological symptoms, as well as cope with your symptoms. Please don't be afraid to reach out and seek out therapy services to address your trauma. There’s is a path and hope to healing.

Today we'd like to discuss some things about trauma. ⁣⁣
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Trauma can be any deeply distressing or disturbing experience which leads to psychological and emotional wounds. These wounds then start to shape your mental health and identity. It can be a one time distressing event, such as a loss, or multiple events, or a prolonged experience of events. ⁣⁣
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Trauma can be experienced through emotional, mental and physical means. Some examples include emotional and verbal abuse, physical abuse, emotional or physical neglect, domestic or physical violence, sexual assault, community violence, medical trauma, traumatic loss, life transitions, and natural disasters, just to name a few. ⁣⁣
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Psychological symptoms of trauma may include anxiety and fear, low self esteem, depression guilt, shame, self-blame, difficulty concentrating, feelings of hopelessness, feeling disconnected or numb, and/or withdrawing from others. Physical symptoms may include insomnia or nightmares, dissociation or “out of body” experiences, fatigue, being startled easily, difficulty concentrating, racing heartbeat, feeling on edge, agitation, aches/pains, and muscle tension. ⁣⁣
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Being first-gens, children of immigrants, and women of color, you're a lot more likely to have experienced some type of trauma or distressing experience(s) throughout your life. Unfortunately, guilt, shame, self-blame and low self esteem are much too common in WOC. It's important to recognize your trauma, and use self compassion as a healing tool. ⁣⁣
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There are therapeutic treatments available to help you learn to recognize physical and psychological symptoms, as well as cope with your symptoms. Please don't be afraid to reach out and seek out therapy services to address your trauma. There’s is a path and hope to healing.

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Holiday tips from AureliaTours who has been coordinating and designing group travel since 2005. They specialize in guided tours with meticulously planned itineraries that insure their clients have the best experience. Aurelia Tours is a travel community, always ready to embrace new members!
📷 @aureliatours
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Holiday tips from AureliaTours who has been coordinating and designing group travel since 2005. They specialize in guided tours with meticulously planned itineraries that insure their clients have the best experience. Aurelia Tours is a travel community, always ready to embrace new members!
📷 @aureliatours
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𝐈 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐲'𝐚𝐥𝐥. Thank you for rocking with me, for supporting me, for sharing my books, telling your friends about me, leaving reviews, talking shit about Landon 🙄, liking and/or commenting on my posts, gassing me up, encouraging me, inspiring me, and being bomb AF 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘰𝘥𝘛! ⁣⁠
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𝗪𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲?⁣⁠
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𝘎𝘰𝘥𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘸𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘨𝘰𝘥𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴. 𝐍𝐞𝐜𝐤𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞: @GemStoneDrippin 💎⁣⁠
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#wocwritetoo #writersofinstagram #amwriting #readerscommunity #writingcommunity #bookstagram #writerssupportingwriters #blackgirlmagic #peopleofcolor #womenofcolor #browngirls #wocownedbusiness #fortheculture #womenwritersofcolor #blackartists #brownartists #womensupportingwomen #authorsupportingauthors #writerssupportingwriters #womenwritingfiction #blackownedbusiness #blackgirlsrock #blackgirlboss #blackgirlswrite #blackgirlsread #creativewriting #bookishlove #authorbellajay 

𝐈 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐲'𝐚𝐥𝐥. Thank you for rocking with me, for supporting me, for sharing my books, telling your friends about me, leaving reviews, talking shit about Landon 🙄, liking and/or commenting on my posts, gassing me up, encouraging me, inspiring me, and being bomb AF 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘰𝘥𝘛! ⁣⁠
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𝗪𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲?⁣⁠
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𝘎𝘰𝘥𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘸𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘨𝘰𝘥𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴. 𝐍𝐞𝐜𝐤𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞: @GemStoneDrippin 💎⁣⁠
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Keeping the sparkles theme going ✨

Keeping the sparkles theme going ✨

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We can't contain our excitment!! We are finally showcasing the wonderful womxn that were apart of our first session for our H U E photo series🎉!
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For some background on how this project came to be, our photoseries was inspired by our "Womxn Wednesday" and " Tribe Thursday" features 💓. We loved engaging with our online community in this way, but we wanted to take it a step further when it came to building community capacity. So...after various in person meetings and online chats, we finally decided on what those features would bring life to!

We officially introduce you to H.U.E (Honoring Unapologetic Expression) A photo series centered around the juxtaposition of stories from womxn of color living in Durham, in spaces throughout Durham. #takingupspace ✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿
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Each session takes place in a new space within Durham Region and we invite between six to ten womxn of colour of any age to participate🥰. Our focus is on small intimate sessions that allow us to unpack, connect and build community together👭🏾. The theme of each session may change, but as a general rule we invite all womxn to come as they are or in any way that makes them feel comfortable and beautiful💛. So with all of that said, let's get into our first WOC🎉. Meet Toritse (@toritse_ikomi)💕 #forwomxnbywomxn 
#huephotoseries

We can't contain our excitment!! We are finally showcasing the wonderful womxn that were apart of our first session for our H U E photo series🎉!
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For some background on how this project came to be, our photoseries was inspired by our "Womxn Wednesday" and " Tribe Thursday" features 💓. We loved engaging with our online community in this way, but we wanted to take it a step further when it came to building community capacity. So...after various in person meetings and online chats, we finally decided on what those features would bring life to!

We officially introduce you to H.U.E (Honoring Unapologetic Expression) A photo series centered around the juxtaposition of stories from womxn of color living in Durham, in spaces throughout Durham. #takingupspace ✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿
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Each session takes place in a new space within Durham Region and we invite between six to ten womxn of colour of any age to participate🥰. Our focus is on small intimate sessions that allow us to unpack, connect and build community together👭🏾. The theme of each session may change, but as a general rule we invite all womxn to come as they are or in any way that makes them feel comfortable and beautiful💛. So with all of that said, let's get into our first WOC🎉. Meet Toritse (@toritse_ikomi)💕 #forwomxnbywomxn
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image \\ @morganharpernichols

image \\ @morganharpernichols

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🌨 STORM 🌪
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So I felt like going back to a look using just makeup.. So I asked my friend Chantal to give me a theme.. some kind of framework to work with. She suggested, a storm, with dark hues and snow. The first version didn't work out, so this is the 2nd version.. I wanted to play up the eyes!🌪
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🌨 STORM 🌪
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So I felt like going back to a look using just makeup.. So I asked my friend Chantal to give me a theme.. some kind of framework to work with. She suggested, a storm, with dark hues and snow. The first version didn't work out, so this is the 2nd version.. I wanted to play up the eyes!🌪
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🎦🔗TRAPXART POPUP EVENT Link In Bio!
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EYES ❌
@stilacosmetics @stilacanada
sapphire + shimmer
@jordanacosmetics aqua stone metallic blue
QUO liquid eyeliner
@covergirl white eyeliner
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@milanicosmetics deep powder
@covergirl concealer
@anastasiabeverlyhills blush trio + highlight
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@nyxcosmetics @nyxcosmetics_canada "jet set" liquid lipstick
@pixibeauty lip gloss
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#makeup by #mssteffyt
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Standing strong & proud as I finish out this crazy year. I hit so many goals in 2019, but I’m dreaming up some real big ones for 2020! ✨ #Goals

Standing strong & proud as I finish out this crazy year. I hit so many goals in 2019, but I’m dreaming up some real big ones for 2020! ✨ #Goals

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Don’t let failure RULE you, let it FUEL you  @abbywambach book WOLFPACK has been such an inspiration to me. In the last year, I was working a job where I couldn’t get ahead. I interviewed for the same position 3 times and was rejected yeah…3 times. Every single time I felt like a failure and everyday I went into work I felt like a failure. 
I was depressed. I was angry. I paraphrased this sentiment of #FailureAsFuel from Abby Wambach’s book #Wolfpack for this video because it was so inspiring that several months after that 3rd rejection and failure, I left that terrible, toxic work environment to run my own business called #StorySocietyCreative and decided to be in charge of my own future. I decided to use that failure to fuel my future. 
My husband and I are working to build this company together, unsure of what’s ahead, but we are having the time of our lives. So if you recently experienced rejection or failure, as Abby says “…But that when failure does come, the team isn’t afraid of it; the team is fueled by it…We don’t accept [failure] as proof that we aren’t worthy of playing at the highest level….yesterday’s loss becomes the fuel for tomorrow’s win”. .
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Don’t let failure RULE you, let it FUEL you @abbywambach book WOLFPACK has been such an inspiration to me. In the last year, I was working a job where I couldn’t get ahead. I interviewed for the same position 3 times and was rejected yeah…3 times. Every single time I felt like a failure and everyday I went into work I felt like a failure.
I was depressed. I was angry. I paraphrased this sentiment of #FailureAsFuel from Abby Wambach’s book #Wolfpack for this video because it was so inspiring that several months after that 3rd rejection and failure, I left that terrible, toxic work environment to run my own business called #StorySocietyCreative and decided to be in charge of my own future. I decided to use that failure to fuel my future.
My husband and I are working to build this company together, unsure of what’s ahead, but we are having the time of our lives. So if you recently experienced rejection or failure, as Abby says “…But that when failure does come, the team isn’t afraid of it; the team is fueled by it…We don’t accept [failure] as proof that we aren’t worthy of playing at the highest level….yesterday’s loss becomes the fuel for tomorrow’s win”. .
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The face you make when someone tells you a bold face lie . I stronger despise liars even little white lies. I often wonder what is the point or purpose of it . I’m all about just being up front because if I find out later the consequence will be even worst . I grew up in a home where my mother was a pathological liar, but she was so good at it, that it had me sometimes questioning myself and what I knew to be true . It was a clear form of manipulation, and It had me questioning everything and everybody. So when people lie to me, I feel disrespected and hurt. So my question to you .....are you okay with telling and being told white lies ? Why or why not ? ⠀⠀ .
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The face you make when someone tells you a bold face lie . I stronger despise liars even little white lies. I often wonder what is the point or purpose of it . I’m all about just being up front because if I find out later the consequence will be even worst . I grew up in a home where my mother was a pathological liar, but she was so good at it, that it had me sometimes questioning myself and what I knew to be true . It was a clear form of manipulation, and It had me questioning everything and everybody. So when people lie to me, I feel disrespected and hurt. So my question to you .....are you okay with telling and being told white lies ? Why or why not ? ⠀⠀ .
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The next day Moses sat to judge the people, and the people stood around Moses from morning till evening. When Moses’ father-in-law saw all that he was doing for the people, he said, “What is this that you are doing for the people? Why do you sit alone, and all the people stand around you from morning till evening?” And Moses said to his father-in-law, “Because the people come to me to inquire of YAHUAH; when they have a dispute, they come to me and I decide between one person and another, and I make them know the statutes of Elohim and His laws.” Moses’ father-in-law said to him, “What you are doing is not good. You and the people with you will certainly wear yourselves out, for the thing is *Too heavy for you. You are not able to do it alone. Now obey my voice; I will give you advice, and YAHUAH be with you! You shall represent the people before YAHUAH and bring their cases to Elohim, and you shall warn them about the statutes and the laws, and make them know the way in which they must walk and what they must do. Moreover, look for able men from all the people, men who fear YAHUAH, who are trustworthy and hate a bribe, and place such men over the people as chiefs of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties, and of tens. And let them judge the people at all times. Every great matter they shall bring *To you, but any small matter they shall decide themselves. So it will be easier for you, and they will bear the burden with you. If you do this, Elohim will direct you, you will be able to endure, and all this people also will go to their place in peace.”
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So Moses listened to the voice of his father-in-law and did all that he had said. Moses chose able men out of all Israel and made them heads over the people, chiefs of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties, and of tens. And they judged the people at all times. Any hard case they brought to Moses, but any small matter they decided themselves. Then Moses let his father-in-law depart, and he went away to his own country. 📖 Exodus 18:13-27
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#Yahuah #Yahusha

The next day Moses sat to judge the people, and the people stood around Moses from morning till evening. When Moses’ father-in-law saw all that he was doing for the people, he said, “What is this that you are doing for the people? Why do you sit alone, and all the people stand around you from morning till evening?” And Moses said to his father-in-law, “Because the people come to me to inquire of YAHUAH; when they have a dispute, they come to me and I decide between one person and another, and I make them know the statutes of Elohim and His laws.” Moses’ father-in-law said to him, “What you are doing is not good. You and the people with you will certainly wear yourselves out, for the thing is *Too heavy for you. You are not able to do it alone. Now obey my voice; I will give you advice, and YAHUAH be with you! You shall represent the people before YAHUAH and bring their cases to Elohim, and you shall warn them about the statutes and the laws, and make them know the way in which they must walk and what they must do. Moreover, look for able men from all the people, men who fear YAHUAH, who are trustworthy and hate a bribe, and place such men over the people as chiefs of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties, and of tens. And let them judge the people at all times. Every great matter they shall bring *To you, but any small matter they shall decide themselves. So it will be easier for you, and they will bear the burden with you. If you do this, Elohim will direct you, you will be able to endure, and all this people also will go to their place in peace.”
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So Moses listened to the voice of his father-in-law and did all that he had said. Moses chose able men out of all Israel and made them heads over the people, chiefs of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties, and of tens. And they judged the people at all times. Any hard case they brought to Moses, but any small matter they decided themselves. Then Moses let his father-in-law depart, and he went away to his own country. 📖 Exodus 18:13-27

▫Yahuah/YAH; glorious name of the Most High Creator

#Yahuah #Yahusha

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🌨 STORM 🌪
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So yesterday I felt like going back to a look using just makeup.. So I asked my friend Chantal @ chantithefaceslayer to give me a theme.. some kind of framework to work with. She suggested, a storm, with dark hues and snow. The first version didn't work out, so this is the 2nd version.. I wanted to play up the eyes!🌪
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@stilacosmetics @stilacanada
sapphire + shimmer
@jordanacosmetics aqua stone metallic blue
QUO liquid eyeliner
@covergirl white eyeliner
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@milanicosmetics deep powder
@covergirl concealer
@anastasiabeverlyhills blush trio + highlight
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LIPS ❌
@nyxcosmetics @nyxcosmetics_canada "jet set" liquid lipstick
@pixibeauty lip gloss
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🌨 STORM 🌪
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So yesterday I felt like going back to a look using just makeup.. So I asked my friend Chantal @ chantithefaceslayer to give me a theme.. some kind of framework to work with. She suggested, a storm, with dark hues and snow. The first version didn't work out, so this is the 2nd version.. I wanted to play up the eyes!🌪
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@stilacosmetics @stilacanada
sapphire + shimmer
@jordanacosmetics aqua stone metallic blue
QUO liquid eyeliner
@covergirl white eyeliner
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@milanicosmetics deep powder
@covergirl concealer
@anastasiabeverlyhills blush trio + highlight
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@nyxcosmetics @nyxcosmetics_canada "jet set" liquid lipstick
@pixibeauty lip gloss
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Yesterday's look. Finishing off these strands of beads + pearls. Only a few hours each day with strong natural sunlight to capture.☀
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@stilacosmetics @stilacanada
garnet + sapphire
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@milanicosmetics deep powder
@covergirl concealer
@anastasiabeverlyhills blush trio
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@nyxcosmetics @nyxcosmetics_canada lingerie liquid lipstick no.15
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Yesterday's look. Finishing off these strands of beads + pearls. Only a few hours each day with strong natural sunlight to capture.☀
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🎦🔗TRAPXART POPUP EVENT Link In Bio!
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EYES ❌
@stilacosmetics @stilacanada
garnet + sapphire
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FACE ❌
@milanicosmetics deep powder
@covergirl concealer
@anastasiabeverlyhills blush trio
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LIPS ❌
@nyxcosmetics @nyxcosmetics_canada lingerie liquid lipstick no.15
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#makeup by #mssteffyt
#artist #photography #painting #makeupart #picoftheday #artist #art #design #makeupaddict #mua #makeupartists #abstractartist #blogger #artislife #makeupartist #torontomua #makeuplover #womenofcolor #torontoartist #makeupblogger #fashionphotography #toronto #fashion #slay #artistsofig #photooftheday #makeuplooks #photoshoot #beads

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Colour experimentation. Same sitting, same eye detail, switched to fuchsia hue. . .
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#artist #photography #painting #makeupart #picoftheday #artist #art #design #makeupaddict #mua #makeupartists #abstractartist #blogger #artislife #makeupartist #torontomua #makeuplover #womenofcolor #torontoartist #makeupblogger #fashionphotography #toronto #fashion #slay #artistsofig #photooftheday #makeuplooks #photoshoot #beads

⚪ FUCHSIA PEARL + BEADS ⚪
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Colour experimentation. Same sitting, same eye detail, switched to fuchsia hue. . .
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#artist #photography #painting #makeupart #picoftheday #artist #art #design #makeupaddict #mua #makeupartists #abstractartist #blogger #artislife #makeupartist #torontomua #makeuplover #womenofcolor #torontoartist #makeupblogger #fashionphotography #toronto #fashion #slay #artistsofig #photooftheday #makeuplooks #photoshoot #beads

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@clinique mascara
QUO liquid eyeliner
@stilacosmetics after hours palette + kitten karma glitter eye shadow
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@bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics_canada , @bellapierreofficial .
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@katvondbeauty lock it foundation
@nudebynatureca soft sand powder
@anastasiabeverlyhills blush trio

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@marcjacobsbeauty lip crayon "plum n get it"
@stilacanada "payday" beauty boss lip gloss
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#artist #photography #painting #makeupart #picoftheday #artist #art #design #makeupaddict #mua #makeupartists #abstractartist #designlife #blogger #artislife #makeupartist #torontomua #makeuplover #womenofcolor #torontoartist #makeupblogger #fashionphotography #toronto #fashion #slay #artistsofig #photooftheday #makeuplooks #photoshoot

⚡🌈 SERVING STRAIGHT LOOKS
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Haven't composed an experimental glitter look in a while..
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🎦🔗 TRAPXART POPUP EVENT Link In Bio!
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@clinique mascara
QUO liquid eyeliner
@stilacosmetics after hours palette + kitten karma glitter eye shadow
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@bhcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics, @nyxcosmetics_canada , @bellapierreofficial .
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@katvondbeauty lock it foundation
@nudebynatureca soft sand powder
@anastasiabeverlyhills blush trio

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@marcjacobsbeauty lip crayon "plum n get it"
@stilacanada "payday" beauty boss lip gloss
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#artist #photography #painting #makeupart #picoftheday #artist #art #design #makeupaddict #mua #makeupartists #abstractartist #designlife #blogger #artislife #makeupartist #torontomua #makeuplover #womenofcolor #torontoartist #makeupblogger #fashionphotography #toronto #fashion #slay #artistsofig #photooftheday #makeuplooks #photoshoot

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💛💥YOU BRING ME TO LIFE EVERY TIME WE TOUCH💥💛
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@coverfx N80 pressed powder
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#artist #photography #makeupart #picoftheday #art #design #fashion  #mua #makeupartists #abstractartist #toronto #artistsofig  #artislife #makeupartist #torontomua  #makeuplover  #womenofcolor #torontoartist #makeupblogger #patternoftheday #photooftheday #avantgardemakeup #patterns #motd #neon #pink #slay

💛💥YOU BRING ME TO LIFE EVERY TIME WE TOUCH💥💛
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A day to fully create.
Started with my creativity completely blocked.
Nothing was coming.
Until the song came on the mix...
And inspired this look...
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@makeupforeverofficial glitter palette
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@coverfx N80 pressed powder
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@nyxcosmetics_canada @nyxcosmetics "foul mouth" lip suede .
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#makeup by #mssteffyt
#artist #photography #makeupart #picoftheday #art #design #fashion #mua #makeupartists #abstractartist #toronto #artistsofig #artislife #makeupartist #torontomua #makeuplover #womenofcolor #torontoartist #makeupblogger #patternoftheday #photooftheday #avantgardemakeup #patterns #motd #neon #pink #slay

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Wash day 101: Take wayyyy too many selfies to document the good hair day achievement📸 ...and a wee video🎥 Swipe swipe swipe 👉🏽 To see the curls that are changing the perception of white hair👵🏽💋
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Wash day 101: Take wayyyy too many selfies to document the good hair day achievement📸 ...and a wee video🎥 Swipe swipe swipe 👉🏽 To see the curls that are changing the perception of white hair👵🏽💋
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Bigger hair, smaller waist. Nowhere near my goal but I‘m finishing off 2019 stronger than I started. What are some of your goals for this month? Let me know in the comments 💜 xo 
Happy December! ✨✨✨

Bigger hair, smaller waist. Nowhere near my goal but I‘m finishing off 2019 stronger than I started. What are some of your goals for this month? Let me know in the comments 💜 xo
Happy December! ✨✨✨

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Powerful! Sen. Stephanie Flowers of Arkansas is still saying she won’t apologize after this video went viral of her giving an emotional speech against a controversial bill. ‘Stand your ground’ laws allow gun owners to use deadly force in the name of self-defense. As the only Black legislator on the state Judiciary Committee, Flowers told its members that she loved her children and that the law posed a threat to her 27-year-old son’s life.
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Powerful! Sen. Stephanie Flowers of Arkansas is still saying she won’t apologize after this video went viral of her giving an emotional speech against a controversial bill. ‘Stand your ground’ laws allow gun owners to use deadly force in the name of self-defense. As the only Black legislator on the state Judiciary Committee, Flowers told its members that she loved her children and that the law posed a threat to her 27-year-old son’s life.
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Apart from the fact that someone broke into my car and stole my IDs and Debit Cards.... This month is going amazing 😁😁😁😁.
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I needed this reminder again loves, maybe you do too?

The reason I'm so tired is because the models of "business" out there are based on very masculine energy, on white supremacist colonial capitalist patriarchal standards. And, while I am conscious that this is not me & the people that I work with, it makes its way into my subconscious. This is the colonial mentality, this is why this work is so deep & so needed and is a journey.

I'm a mother, I'm a person with a disability, I'm first generation, my parents grew up in poverty and I grew up working class, I'm an HSP, an empath, an intuitive, I'm a Mexicana Xicana! Those models of business don't fit me at all & I don't want to try to make them fit. And so last night, I made a decision to slow my timeline.

I've been so busy trying to meet the demand, & I just can't keep up & that's ok. And so, last night I reminded myself that I don't need to compare myself to colonial standards. That I need to use my own timeline, my own my of working intuitively, even in & especially in my business because it is an extension of me. To force try as I have unconsciously tried to is to diminish my own power, my own energy. Forcing not flowing. Colonialism, so sneaky, it's everywhere.

Flowing is what I'm leaning into. What got me to this platform & this community is trusting my own intuition & of course I have things to learn in business, but I should not led that lead. I should not allow the external to take over the sacred internal. Maybe you need this reminder too my love?

Stop comparing yourself, your success, your worth to people who benefit from white, upper middle class, able bodied, cishet male settler colonial privilege. And, just like that, my entire body relaxes. I need sacred space. We need "slower" & decolonial timelines. This is not a failure & we do not need to feel shame.

My work & my motherhood & my health will always end up losing if I try to fit into their boxes. I'm here to liberate us from those boxes not to work within them. I do not need to judge myself against these standards because I'll always end up losing.

What about you? How does this liberate you? I hope it does dear one, I love you 💖.

I needed this reminder again loves, maybe you do too?

The reason I'm so tired is because the models of "business" out there are based on very masculine energy, on white supremacist colonial capitalist patriarchal standards. And, while I am conscious that this is not me & the people that I work with, it makes its way into my subconscious. This is the colonial mentality, this is why this work is so deep & so needed and is a journey.

I'm a mother, I'm a person with a disability, I'm first generation, my parents grew up in poverty and I grew up working class, I'm an HSP, an empath, an intuitive, I'm a Mexicana Xicana! Those models of business don't fit me at all & I don't want to try to make them fit. And so last night, I made a decision to slow my timeline.

I've been so busy trying to meet the demand, & I just can't keep up & that's ok. And so, last night I reminded myself that I don't need to compare myself to colonial standards. That I need to use my own timeline, my own my of working intuitively, even in & especially in my business because it is an extension of me. To force try as I have unconsciously tried to is to diminish my own power, my own energy. Forcing not flowing. Colonialism, so sneaky, it's everywhere.

Flowing is what I'm leaning into. What got me to this platform & this community is trusting my own intuition & of course I have things to learn in business, but I should not led that lead. I should not allow the external to take over the sacred internal. Maybe you need this reminder too my love?

Stop comparing yourself, your success, your worth to people who benefit from white, upper middle class, able bodied, cishet male settler colonial privilege. And, just like that, my entire body relaxes. I need sacred space. We need "slower" & decolonial timelines. This is not a failure & we do not need to feel shame.

My work & my motherhood & my health will always end up losing if I try to fit into their boxes. I'm here to liberate us from those boxes not to work within them. I do not need to judge myself against these standards because I'll always end up losing.

What about you? How does this liberate you? I hope it does dear one, I love you 💖.

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Thirty years ago, Tommy Boy Records released @queenlatifah’s debut album, 'All Hail the Queen. By all measures, it was a success. "All Hail the Queen’s impact on hip-hop, music, and women at large is undeniable. But its effect on us Black girls who struggled to survive flames conjured by crack cocaine during the 1980s was metamorphic." Continue reading at the link in bio. (📸: Getty)

Thirty years ago, Tommy Boy Records released @queenlatifah’s debut album, 'All Hail the Queen. By all measures, it was a success. "All Hail the Queen’s impact on hip-hop, music, and women at large is undeniable. But its effect on us Black girls who struggled to survive flames conjured by crack cocaine during the 1980s was metamorphic." Continue reading at the link in bio. (📸: Getty)

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When your husband believes you are the cutest girl in the world! Thanks to my sister @joycefuerza who helped pick this lovely dress for me to receive the 2019 Canada's Top 100 Most Powerful Women award in #Toronto from @wxnetwork - presented by KPMG!

#BestHusbandInTheWorld #bestsister #beauty #fashion #redcarpet #reddress #gala #awards #awardgala #Top100 #top100women #Canadastop100women #PowerfullyEmpowered #businesswoman #WomenOfColor #Womeninbusiness #BlackExcellence #BlackGirlMagic #beautiful #prettywoman #glamourous ##couplegoals #marriedlife #entrepreneurlife #honor

When your husband believes you are the cutest girl in the world! Thanks to my sister @joycefuerza who helped pick this lovely dress for me to receive the 2019 Canada's Top 100 Most Powerful Women award in #Toronto from @wxnetwork - presented by KPMG!

#BestHusbandInTheWorld #bestsister #beauty #fashion #redcarpet #reddress #gala #awards #awardgala #Top100 #top100women #Canadastop100women #PowerfullyEmpowered #businesswoman #WomenOfColor #Womeninbusiness #BlackExcellence #BlackGirlMagic #beautiful #prettywoman #glamourous # #couplegoals #marriedlife #entrepreneurlife #honor

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